Share your story. Man How old are you? USA Highest education received: College degree eg. In a serious relationship open Religious affiliation : Buddhist How religious are you? Mostly heterosexual How many sexual partners have you had in your life including oral sex? What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before?
How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was living in Taiwan for a few months with my wife and daughter. I really wanted to make some local friends and get to know the culture, so I got on the apps. She messaged me and we chatted a bit. Although I am not shy, I do appreciate a woman who is assertive about what she wants. I was also pretty disoriented by the language barrier and it was a relief that her English was quite good. We met up and had a pleasant dinner in the night market, then went up to my rooftop.
She was slender and elegant and had a slightly aloof poise that I learned to recognize among many Taiwanese women. At first I was more curious than lustful. She had an easy way of making casual contact as we walked side by side and seemed completely indifferent to the attention we attracted as a mixed couple in a city with few foreigners. I could tell there was mutual attraction, but the open relationship thing was unfamiliar territory for her. We made out a little and then I walked her to the metro.
What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A few days later I went out to her district and met her at the metro stop.
She was dressed elegantly, sexy but austere. She showed me around the night market and taught me the Chinese names of different foods. We ate fried chicken at a roadside stand, talking very little. I was high from anticipation and also from the euphoric dislocation of a setting where I understand nothing and just take in the sensations.
